I jsut came across a wonderful resource for mums like me. For mums who've been given a poor terminal diagnosis for their baby. For mums who have lost their baby. For mums who had an angel with Trisomy 18.
But also for FRIENDS and FAMILY of mums like me. Please have a look at these sections.... there's a really indepth look into what losing your baby is like, and how this will be a long process for me. I won't be better next week. I probably won't be better next year. But I will take it one step at a time, one day at a time, with my Lord and Saviour right beside me.
How to help a grieving friend...
What to say to a grieving friend...
Supporting a friend with a poor prenatal diagnosis...
Seriously, I think this is the BEST website/blog I've ever found. She's linked everything perfectly together and there's so much REAL and heartfelt emotion and compassion in her words. So many of the things she mentions I was resounding 'amen' to. Its so good to know I'm not the only one that feels this way I do. That I am doing this road of grief with many many other women. And that we will all feel ups and downs and good days and bad days. For years to come.